engram: WAL persistence + integrity hardening + single canonical runtime

Establish lang/runtime/ as the ONE canonical el runtime (from the active
runtime that carries hebb/emb persistence + the new WAL); repoint the el CI
publish, engram build, elb default, and in-repo build scripts to it; delete
the el-compiler/runtime + lang/releases/ forks; add scripts/check-single-runtime.sh
drift guard.

Fixes a live prod bug: the el CI published el-runtime-c/-h from the LAGGING
el-compiler fork (0 hebb refs), so the shipped soul never persisted Hebbian
edge weights — learned co-activation was wiped on every restart. Publishing
from canonical ships the stranded 'learning that cannot outlive the process'
fix.

WAL storage engine + integrity fixes (DELETE->tombstone + store-layer
protection, safe data-dir default) ride in behind ENGRAM_WAL (default off =
byte-identical to today). Verified: engram elb per-module build clean, WAL
gate 66/66, native smoke ok, drift-guard green.

.githooks/pre-commit

@@ -6,13 +6,13 @@ set -euo pipefail
 
 ROOT="$(git rev-parse --show-toplevel)"
 LANG_DIR="$ROOT/lang"
-RUNTIME="$LANG_DIR/el-compiler/runtime"
+RUNTIME="$LANG_DIR/runtime"
 ELC="$LANG_DIR/dist/platform/elc"
 
 # If elc isn't built yet, skip with a warning rather than blocking
 if [ ! -x "$ELC" ]; then
   echo "⚠  elc not found at lang/dist/platform/elc — skipping pre-commit tests"
-  echo "   Build it first: cd lang && gcc -O2 -I el-compiler/runtime dist/elc-bootstrap.c el-compiler/runtime/el_runtime.c -lcurl -lpthread -o dist/elc-gen2 && ./dist/elc-gen2 el-compiler/src/compiler.el > /tmp/elc.c && gcc -O2 -I el-compiler/runtime /tmp/elc.c el-compiler/runtime/el_runtime.c -lcurl -lpthread -o dist/platform/elc"
+  echo "   Build it first: cd lang && gcc -O2 -I runtime dist/elc-bootstrap.c runtime/el_runtime.c -lcurl -lpthread -o dist/elc-gen2 && ./dist/elc-gen2 el-compiler/src/compiler.el > /tmp/elc.c && gcc -O2 -I runtime /tmp/elc.c runtime/el_runtime.c -lcurl -lpthread -o dist/platform/elc"
   exit 0
 fi