Adds engram_assert_json — a grounded "assertion envelope" primitive for a
realizer/op_assert seam (per backlog bl-53/#57) — plus purview-scoped
mutation wrappers engram_node_full_in/engram_connect_in, which refuse
non-default purviews rather than silently mutating the live store. Threads
through el_seed.c/h wrappers and the codegen.el arity table per the
project's existing C-builtin recipe.
Also rewrites lang/AGENTS.md build docs with verified (2026-08-15) findings
that el_seed.c does not compile standalone.
bigmerge