fix(reliability): engram-write — guard all fire-and-forget writes

Every engram_node_full call that dropped its return value now binds it
and emits a println on empty string. engram_save calls in consolidate,
heartbeat, and dharma-room-turn are checked for failure. The two API
handlers (log_state_event, tune_config) that skipped api_persisted()
now match the read-back-after-write contract used everywhere else in
neuron-api.el.

Files changed:
- chat.el: conv_history_persist, handle_dharma_room_turn, auto_persist
- soul.el: emit_session_start_event, seed_persona_from_env HTTP check
- memory.el: mem_save, mem_boot_count_inc
- neuron-api.el: handle_api_log_state_event, handle_api_tune_config,
  handle_api_consolidate (engram_save + session summary write)
- awareness.el: ise_post local-engram fallback path

TODO comments added for non-atomic patterns (issues #12, #13) and
the missing circuit breaker (#14) — these require new primitives.

awareness.el

@@ -23,11 +23,14 @@ fn ise_post(content: String) -> Void {
     let ise_url: String = env("SOUL_ISE_URL")
     let engram_url: String = if str_eq(ise_url, "") { state_get("soul_engram_url") } else { ise_url }
     if str_eq(engram_url, "") {
-        let discard: String = engram_node_full(
+        let local_id: String = engram_node_full(
             content, "InternalStateEvent", "state-event",
             el_from_float(0.3), el_from_float(0.3), el_from_float(0.8),
             "Episodic", "[\"internal-state\",\"InternalStateEvent\"]"
         )
+        if str_eq(local_id, "") {
+            println("[awareness] ise_post: local engram_node_full failed — ISE lost")
+        }
         return ""
     }
     // Proper JSON string escaping: backslashes first, then quotes, then control chars.