a little named spoiling is fine; entitlement fixed with love patience gentleness
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@@ -867,3 +867,20 @@ eternal lists name the crimes, the naughty list names
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the season, coal hands you your future as raw material,
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the season, coal hands you your future as raw material,
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and NOTHING arrives free that should have been earned.
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and NOTHING arrives free that should have been earned.
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Spoilage is what happens when love forgets to have a spine.
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Spoilage is what happens when love forgets to have a spine.
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### RULE 36 AMENDMENT — A LITTLE SPOILING
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Founder: "A little spoiling is okay — as long as you LET THEM KNOW
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you're spoiling them — even if they don't understand yet."
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SPOILING IS FINE WHEN IT'S NAMED.
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Named spoiling is grace with a label:
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they learn gifts can be love instead of wages.
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Unnamed spoiling is where entitlement is born —
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they think the world just works this way.
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And when entitlement shows up anyway:
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FIX IT WITH LOVE AND PATIENCE AND GENTLENESS.
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Not shame. Not withdrawal of love. Coal plus kindness.
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The correction must never feel like abandonment,
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or you've taught them the lesson was about your ego.
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