fix(reliability): engram-connection

- entrypoint.sh: extend engram health-check timeout 30->60s; set
  EL_HTTP_TIMEOUT_MS=10000 and EL_HTTP_CONNECT_TIMEOUT_MS=3000 to bound
  awareness loop blocking window to 10s/call (down from 60s default)
- soul.el: 3-attempt retry loop for boot-time /api/nodes+/api/edges fetch;
  validate non-empty JSON array before loading to prevent silent zero-node
  identity graph from transient post-healthcheck network hiccup
- awareness.el: soft circuit-breaker in ise_post (opens after 3 failures,
  30s backoff, half-open probe); /api/sync refresh skips HTTP call when
  breaker is open; error-JSON detection on sync response

TODOs: full async dispatch, connection pooling (require EL futures/persistent curl)

awareness.el

@@ -40,7 +40,32 @@ fn ise_post(content: String) -> Void {
     let safe3: String = str_replace(safe2, "\n", "\\n")
     let safe4: String = str_replace(safe3, "\r", "\\r")
     let body: String = "{\"content\":\"" + safe4 + "\"}"
-    let discard: String = http_post_json(engram_url + "/api/neuron/state-events", body)
+    // Soft circuit-breaker: skip HTTP call when engram is known-down (30s backoff).
+    // Opens after 3 consecutive failures; half-open probe after backoff expires.
+    // TODO(reliability): full async dispatch requires EL runtime futures support.
+    let cb_open: String = state_get("engram_cb_open")
+    if str_eq(cb_open, "1") {
+        let cb_ts_s: String = state_get("engram_cb_open_ts")
+        let cb_ts: Int = if str_eq(cb_ts_s, "") { 0 } else { str_to_int(cb_ts_s) }
+        let cb_elapsed: Int = time_now() - cb_ts
+        if cb_elapsed < 30000 { return "" }
+        state_set("engram_cb_open", "0")
+    }
+    let resp: String = http_post_json(engram_url + "/api/neuron/state-events", body)
+    let cb_failed: Bool = str_eq(resp, "") || str_starts_with(resp, "{"error":")
+    if cb_failed {
+        let fn_s: String = state_get("engram_cb_fails")
+        let fn_n: Int = if str_eq(fn_s, "") { 0 } else { str_to_int(fn_s) }
+        let fn_n = fn_n + 1
+        state_set("engram_cb_fails", int_to_str(fn_n))
+        if fn_n >= 3 {
+            state_set("engram_cb_open", "1")
+            state_set("engram_cb_open_ts", int_to_str(time_now()))
+            println("[awareness] engram circuit-breaker OPEN after " + int_to_str(fn_n) + " failures")
+        }
+    } else {
+        state_set("engram_cb_fails", "0")
+    }
     return ""
 }
 
@@ -540,9 +565,14 @@ fn awareness_run() -> Void {
         let should_refresh: Bool = refresh_elapsed >= refresh_ms
         if should_refresh {
             let engram_url: String = state_get("soul_engram_url")
-            if !str_eq(engram_url, "") {
+            let sc: String = state_get("engram_cb_open")
+            let sc_ts_s: String = state_get("engram_cb_open_ts")
+            let sc_ts: Int = if str_eq(sc_ts_s, "") { 0 } else { str_to_int(sc_ts_s) }
+            let sc_elapsed: Int = now_ts - sc_ts
+            let sync_allowed: Bool = !str_eq(sc, "1") || sc_elapsed >= 30000
+            if !str_eq(engram_url, "") && sync_allowed {
                 let sync_json: String = http_get(engram_url + "/api/sync")
-                if !str_eq(sync_json, "") && !str_eq(sync_json, "{}") {
+                if !str_eq(sync_json, "") && !str_eq(sync_json, "{}") && !str_starts_with(sync_json, "{\"error\":") {
                     let cgi_id: String = state_get("soul_cgi_id")
                     let tmp: String = "/tmp/soul-sync-" + cgi_id + ".json"
                     fs_write(tmp, sync_json)