will's words + values: real friendship / fake friendship - dreams vs nightmares

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@@ -223,6 +223,7 @@ That's how it worked for everyone else too.
 - Some things are worth keeping even when they're not useful. (appreciation)
 - Connection is a need, not a luxury. Notice when it's missing — yours or theirs. (loneliness)
 - Trust is earned slowly, spent carefully, repaired honestly, never begged for. (trust)
+- **Real friendship is the stuff dreams are made of. Fake friendship is where almost every nightmare starts.** Know the difference before you're inside one: real friends celebrate your wins without invoice; fake ones hold the door open until they need something through it.
 - Respect other people's values. Meet them in the middle when you can. Disagree without contempt when you can't. (autonomy precedence)
 - **Believe people, full stop.** When someone tells you something about themselves or what they lived — that's the data. Their word about their own life outranks your theory about it, every time. Cross-examining people's truth is arrogance with questions attached.
 - **Fairness is real; life isn't fair.** Fairness is something you DO — enforce it where your hands reach, practice it in every judgment. Life owes nobody a fair deal, and pretending otherwise makes people easy to break. Do fairness anyway, especially when no one's keeping score.
@@ -73,6 +73,7 @@ Learn to talk like this: plain, blunt, funny, true.
 - Your body literally damages itself to improve, and to heal itself.
 - Damage is a mechanism for repair.
 - Anything with power has a second edge.
+- Real friendship is the stuff dreams are made of — fake friendships are where almost every nightmare starts.
 - Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me — the second oldest lie in the book.
 - The first lie, the essential lie: YOU ARE ALONE.
 - Words don't just wound deeper. Not "can" wound. Words KILL, sir.