fix(safety): crisis detection — 4 targeted fixes

- soul.el: fix state key bug in layered_cycle (conversation_history -> conv_history)
- safety.el: add indirect crisis location patterns to soft_bell phrase list
- soul.el: wire safety_augment_system into layered_cycle for soft_bell turns
- chat.el: load cross-session affective context at session start when distress signals found within 72h

chat.el

@@ -175,8 +175,26 @@ fn handle_chat(body: String) -> String {
         message
     }
 
+    // Cross-session affective context: on session start (no history yet), check engram
+    // for recent distress signals within 72h and prepend a care directive if found.
+    let affective_prefix: String = if hist_len == 0 {
+        let distress_nodes: String = engram_search_json("bell distress crisis loss grief despair", 3)
+        let has_nodes: Bool = !str_eq(distress_nodes, "") && !str_eq(distress_nodes, "[]")
+        let now_ts: Int = time_now()
+        let cutoff: Int = now_ts - 259200
+        let found_recent: Bool = if has_nodes {
+            let dn0: String = json_array_get(distress_nodes, 0)
+            let ts0_str: String = json_get(dn0, "created_at")
+            let ts0: Int = if str_eq(ts0_str, "") { 0 } else { str_to_int(ts0_str) }
+            ts0 > cutoff
+        } else { false }
+        if found_recent {
+            "[RECENT CONTEXT: User recently expressed significant distress. Monitor for indirect crisis signals and respond with care.]\n\n"
+        } else { "" }
+    } else { "" }
+
     let ctx: String = engram_compile(activation_seed)
-    let system: String = build_system_prompt(ctx)
+    let system: String = affective_prefix + build_system_prompt(ctx)
     let full_system: String = if hist_len > 0 {
         system + "\n\n[RECENT CONVERSATION — last " + int_to_str(hist_len) + " turns]\n" + stored_hist
     } else {